I am the baby of the family. Everyone knows the stereotype: spoiled, gets whatever they want, and is of course, babied.
If you were a child growing up in s China, as I was, Chinese Communist Party education began as soon as you could spell your name. The lessons were blissfully simple: The party is unimpeachable; those who assail the party are despicable; the family is a metaphor for our great nation, whose members are all lovingly allied because unity is the most important principle.
That is the million dollar question.
Nevertheless, I rarely have any trouble with setting some time aside to stay in touch with family, friends, and any woman I might be dating, as well. Ask her on dates.